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Tuesday, 4 March 2025

THEY MATTER

Good morning

In my lifetime, I have been privileged to meet a few really good people. I’ve only met a couple of them in person, it’s true, and some of them are not names which are readily recognised. I am grateful and blessed that one of these people was my father.

There is a whole Blog which I will write about my father’s influence in people’s lives. To give you a small measure of this wonderful man. He was on assignment in Ndola, a northern town in Zambia, in the 1960s and early 1970s. It was early post-independence and emotions were running high in the aftermath. My father was South African and the majority of his staff was from the Bemba tribe which could have cause immense concerns. We returned to South Africa in 1973. My father passed away from cancer in 1978.

My father made such a personal difference in the lives of all who worked with him that to honour him when he died, (five years after he had left Zambia), every one of his staff camped out on the work premises for a week to pray for and mourn the passing of their father. If you have any idea of African culture, this was reverence which few will be granted. We were amazed and touched by such wonderful honours for our dad but it wasn’t until later in life that I understood the import of that gesture for a man who had so enriched the lives of these people.

The other introductions have been through books which I’ve read and functions which I have attended. Although each one of these people is different from any other, there is an overarching passion (and compassion) which defines them. In a sense, a solid thread running through them.

I don’t watch television and haven’t done so for over thirty years but I do read voraciously, with many of the books I’ve read being self-developmental and motivational. My earliest recollection of delving into these types of books was in the 1960s and 1970s. My father had an extensive library and his favourite authors included Napoleon Hill, Og Mandino and Dale Carnegie. That has to be a good start for any child.

In the late 1990s, early 2000s, I was introduced to Robert Kyosaki through his book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Needless to say, this began my foray into the mind of this great man. In late 2006, his latest book Why We Want You To Be Rich joined my library.

Enter Donald Trump as the co-author of Why We Want You To Be Rich and my love for Donald Trump began. 

A man of the people

Amazon summarises the book thus, “Donald Trump and Robert Kiyosaki wrote Why We Want You To Be Rich because they saw how the turbulent economic climate would impact the middle class. Their goal is to inspire the middle class to take control of their lives and choices to defy the odds.”

I have never been involved in nor interested in real estate, although following their advice would have been a very good idea. It was mainly the personal views of the authors which interested me. Each man’s personality shone throughout the book. The book is long and is not for everyone but it fascinated me – I didn’t get rich but it certainly enriched my life.

I have followed the lives of both these men since 2006.

I currently live in South Africa and news of what happens in the rest of the world is sparse and often ‘weak-ink’ diluted. I dug for what I could find about Donald Trump. I’d hear of how he worked with his people on his building sites; of his walking around and drawing out of his crew what they needed to get their job done faster and more effectively. He also didn’t simply ask and then move one. He’d organise what was required before he continued. Not only did people feel valued; they were valued. This is a quality which is still evident today. Throughout the years, I have not noticed a change in the essence of the man. He spoke fondly of how he would walk buildings with his father, picking up nails and screws because – waste not want not. DOGE is his current ‘picking up nails’ moment.

My years of following this man’s life have shown me that he’s an ordinary person with an extraordinary brain which he was and is more than prepared to share to help other people to help themselves. He had and still has a genuine belief that everyone matters and has a part to play in the theatre of life – and it’s clear to see that Donald Trump enjoys playing in and to that theatre.

Of course he’s a showman. He has a wicked sense of humour and loves sharing it with people. He’s a classic entertainer. The skits that he has done with and as ‘regular folk’ is not through the lens of condescension, it’s because of his genuine empathy with and enjoyment of people living what would be considered regular lives. When Donald Trump credits someone’s worth, it’s because he absolutely and solidly believes that they matter, because they do - not only to his bottom line, but to the vision he’s working to accomplish.

This is a minuscule sample of what it is that sets that Donald Trump apart and places him among the few really good people whom I have been privileged to get to know. He is a genius with a genuine belief in the value of regular people, from taxi drivers to hardhats and hot dog vendors as well as anyone who is putting in the effort to improve their station and that of those around them.

Donald Trump’s life pulses with people and he clearly loves it.

Monday, 3 March 2025

THE DAIGHACAER BOOK ONE, Chapter 8

Good Monday morning

The Daighacaer is a complex interweaving of many cultures, timescales and life experiences. 

Chapter 8 introduces the first of various, necessary, 'flashbacks' in order to provide for the completeness of the tale. 

It also brings to the fore an horrific invasion by The Darke into Raeldysce. The invasion was planned way in the depths of history of Raeldysce, which from inception lived in The Lighte. It was not an overt invasion back then but it was definitely well planned. The Darke infiltrated the very structure of the formation of Raeldysce with specific goals in mind. 

The ferocity of the attack in Chapter 8 leaves the population of Raeldysce shocked and vulnerable. The attack was directly against the royalty, those who led the populace in their love for The Lighte and its advocates, The Lady Dawne and The Lord Dayl.

Here are a couple of segments from the chapter. The first is the moment when Eryen grew from a happy young man into a furious ruler; the second details the arrival of Jeala, the Intuerum Param for Raeldysce.


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"Eryen had been working with the treasurer when he was called that day.

He excitedly rushed to the nursery to await the birth of their child.

Eroyalen, his father, who had been working with him in the treasury, joined him.

Anoral, his mother, was out in the far reaches of the realm assisting a farmer’s wife with a problem that she was having with her livestock, but a messenger was sent out for her as well.

Father and son sat hour after hour and waited and, each time he heard Allara’s cries, time and time again, Eryen felt an urgent need to go to her and had jumped up.

Each time his father had put his hand on his arm and had motioned for him to wait. “Birth­ing is women’s work, my son. They won’t thank you to interfere with their labour.”

After a particularly long agonised cry, Eryen could stand it no longer. He knew that he had to be with Allara. He once again sprang to his feet, pushed the door open and ran into the room.

What he saw shocked him to the core.

Allara’s long hair lay around her in lanky disarray. Her body was a solid sheen of perspiration. Her face was tinged with a greyish hue. Her eyes were already rolled back in her head and her poor tired body looked as limp as a rag doll. It was clear that she did not have any more energy or even life to give and, after far too many hours in labour, their child had still not been born.

“What are you doing?” he shouted.

“What have you been doing?” he shouted again as he stormed over to his wife’s side.

“You’re killing her! You’re killing my wife!”

He grabbed the nearest midwife and threw her away from Allara.

“You’re killing my wife!” he yelled again as he threw the second one against the nearest wall.

He heard but did not care about the loud crack as the midwife’s skull connected with the wall.

“You are killing my baby too! Get out!” Eryen’s rage was palpable as he once more stormed towards them."

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The King ordered one of the other midwives to immediately fetch honey tea brewed with an infusion of the finest strength-giving herbs in the Kingdom.

While they were waiting for Jeala, Allora and Ryador to arrive, Eryen gently cradled Allara’s head and wiped away the perspiration with cool cloths while Eroyalen helped her to sip the life-giving drink.

Each contraction Allara experienced seemed to sap the very life further out of her. With each contraction and each exhausted whimper, Eryen cradled Allara more closely and he tried to pass some of his strength on to her, although he felt as if he were dying inside.

This was all wrong.

How could those women have done this?

He would get to the bottom of it somehow and when he did someone would answer for the pain and suffering that Allara was experiencing.

Jeala, Allora and Ryador arrived within minutes and Jeala took con­trol immediately.

She took the tea away from Eryen and Eroyalen and poured all of it out of the window.

“Tea was a good idea but that tea is not going to be of any use at all,” she said. “Much more than tea is needed right now.”

Jeala was concerned. Very concerned. Why did she not instinctively know in time that Allara was in labour? That had only ever happened to her once previously in all her many years as an intuerum and her heart was broken because of it. What or who blocked her from knowing this time? She did not have time to work it out but she would. “As soon as Allara and her baby are safe,” she thought but then shuddered as a dull ache started at the back of her head and coursed through her body. She knew but she was not prepared to accept what she knew.

Allora turned to the midwives. “Everyone out now! That means each and every one of you!”

Her pointed finger had the midwives cringing.

“Everyone, except the Heir Prince and the King!”

“But that’s not possible. He’s her husband. Husbands aren’t allowed in the birthing room,” com­plained Erilyse, one of the junior midwives.

Eroyalen turned, his face purple, and stormed over to Erilyse in a rage and spoke in the quietest of all voices. Icy tones which brooked no argument. Fury and fear mingled in a dangerous combination.

“Yes, Madam Midwife, Eryen is Allara’s Husband. He is also Heir Prince of Raeldysce. Be so kind as to remember that. Be so kind as to also remem­ber that it is you, Madam, who has been party to almost taking the life of his wife and that of his heir. Let us hope, for your sake, that it does not turn out to be more than ‘almost’.”

The other two midwives recognised the icy fury of the King which they had only witnessed once before in all their years. Hastily and unceremoniously they grabbed Erilyse by both arms and dragged the woman out of the room.

Through it all Erilyse struggled against the hands that held her. She was still trying to argue.

The look of absolute fury on her face was not missed by Jeala.


Sunday, 2 March 2025

SUNDAY TESTIMONY - GOD DOES NOT MAKE MISTAKES

SUNDAY TESTIMONY – Part Three

Good Sunday morning

Part Three of my testimony on how God has been integral throughout my life. (Part Two is the post of the 16th of February 2025).

I can’t imagine what my parents’ life must have been like.

They had been longing for the birth of their baby and both were hoping that it would be a girl. They had even decided on names from which to choose. 

Their prayer was answered. They had their baby girl. What they could never have anticipated were all the complications with which they had to deal.

Their first choice for my name was Deanne although Felicity was on their list.

With no prompting, my maternal grandparents, who did not know of the names which were chosen, phoned my mother and told her that they had a strong feeling that the new baby should be called ‘Felicity’ (felicity refers to the state of being happy or blissful, and is always used as a noun in a sentence, for example, "The couple enjoyed great felicity in their marriage").

At about the same time, my paternal grandmother spoke to my father and told him that she had the strongest feeling that they should name me ‘Felicity’. This was rather strange as my father’s mother was Afrikaans speaking. ‘Felicity’ is a very English name and not one that any Afrikaans-speaking person would choose.

Given the God-confirmation from both families, my name was settled, with Deanne as my second name, although, to my mother’s despair, my father registered my names as Felicity Diane. My mother always pronounced my second name as Deanne.

Back to mine and my parents’ life in those first months of my life.

After the shock of my birth, the entire right side of my body was completely paralysed with no hope of every being restored. I was unable to suckle and my father, who was an engineer, devised a feeding apparatus which could be used to drip small amounts of milk into the left side of my mouth so that I was able to swallow. Feeding time was an hour-long process and needed to be repeated every two hours because I was so small. With my father at work all day, my mother's life was exhaustion upon exhaustion. I was not born prematurely and I thank God for that because if that had been the case, I doubt that I would have survived those first few months. 

Throughout the initial months, my parents lavished love and attention on their ‘imperfect’ little baby who was always such a happy little soul. With a name like ‘Felicity’, I suppose that is to be expected.

My mother took me to the clinic weekly for checkups for both my health and my mental development. Each week, the diagnosis of my mental development remained the same, my parents would need to care for me for life as brain development was well below normal. From a health perspective, my head gradually returned to normal size and shape, and I started to have some use of the right side of my body.

Eventually, it became obvious to my parents that the paralysis of my right side was diminishing and eventually all paralysis was gone. The miracle of that was not lost on my parents. So many people were praying for my healing and I know that their prayers were heard, how could I not?To my parent’s delight, when I was six months old, I started to crawl. This was so unexpected that the doctors were shocked. It also meant that my body was healing faster than anyone ever thought possible.

My parents also noticed that I was frequently alert, looking around, laughing and trying to form words. My mother shared this with the doctors who told her that all new parents believed that the noises that their babies were making were actual words and that she had to remember that I had more mental issues than other babies. This didn’t deter my parents in the least and they talked to me all the time as if I were ‘normal’.

When I was about ten months old, my mother told the doctor that I had spoken my first sentence. My mother said that the doctor shook his head. He was used to her telling him that this baby was more advanced than he knew she could be.

“Humour me please, doctor,” said my mother. “If we’re lucky, she may surprise you. Go out of the room. Come back in and say ‘Hello, my baby’. She may respond and say ‘Hayo, Dada’ which is what she says when she sees her father.”

“Oh, my dear, I do wish that you wouldn’t keep getting your hopes up. It can only end in heartbreak for you.”

“Please doctor. Just try. If there’s no response, at least I will know for certain that it's all my imagination.”

With a shrug of his shoulders and a sigh, the doctor left the room. He stood outside for a few seconds and came back into the room saying “Hello, my baby”.

His tiny, mentally disabled patient smiled at him and said “Hayo, docca”.

My mother always laughed when she recalled the look on the doctor’s face. She never had to take me to the clinic for developmental issues again. What a relief and all gratitude to the Lord Jesus who made my miraculous recovery possible.

Our God does not make mistakes. God is perfect and His creation, made in His image, is, likewise, perfect in His eyes. Nothing that we are physically, nor anything that we experience in this life takes away from how God views us as perfect. Although we fall short of perfection in the eyes of the world, we will always be perfect in the eyes of God.

Genesis 1:27 ESV (English Standard Version) - God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them, male and female he created them.

Psalm 139:13 ESV - For you formed my inwards parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it full well.

This does not mean that we are all ‘perfect’ in the world’s view of physical perfection. It does mean that God made each and every one of us with His will in mind. The world sees perfection from a physical and visual perspective. God’s sees His creation for what our hearts are.

Make no mistake, God does not make mistakes.


Happy Dad and His Healthy Daughter

My poem for today:

PERFECT IN GOD’S EYES

In God’s eyes you are perfect
In God’s you are whole
In God’s eyes you are perfect
He loves you heart and soul

So turn towards Jesus
Look up to Jesus
Turn towards Jesus
With Love

In God’s eyes you're a wonder
In God’s you are whole
In God’s eyes you're a wonder
Give Him your heart and soul

So turn towards Jesus
Look up to Jesus
Turn towards Jesus
In Love